why is naive considered cute?

Spillage time! Even though I THINK I've written about this before.

Okay. Question: why is 'naivety' considered cute? And why do people put on the naive act?

I mean, I can see how it'd be cute sometimes. I have a friend who used to be quite naive but it was okay because she was genuinely so. She wasn't TRYING to be naive and she didn't say silly things so that people would be like: 'AWWW...!' I think there's a massive difference.

I think as you get older there are fewer things you can get away with in that department. You just look stupid. I have another friend and guys tend to find her really cute because she's scared of action movies and has problems expressing emotions other than happiness. It's cute when you're, say, 14. And even that's pushing it. I don't know. Maybe I just feel like it's a complete act. I'm actually kind of glad that I don't see her that often anymore. Even back then I just always felt like asking her to grow up? There's nothing wrong with being positive all the time but when you're at the point where you just seem constantly in-genuine then you just seem... fake? I mean, you can be happy all the time without resorting to making yourself look like a 3 year old.

Maybe I just can't stand people like that. Fake-ness is not cool. Grow up.

p.s. sorry this is so vague. i can't name names or make it too obvious about who i'm talking about. ><"

another post soon! :)

xx.