i just had dinner and thought i'd do something non-study before i knuckle down and cram for a awhile. my mum made beef pho. i'm not supposed to eat it with my beef allergy and all but, seeing as though there wasn't anything else, i didn't have much of a choice. she actually made it for lunch but i had mi goreng then instead. so yeah... i'm expecting to wake up tomorrow with a nasty rash. :(
i thought today i'd talk about bridges. yep. bridges. lots of people use bridges as a sort of metaphor for moving on. i completely agree. you move on because you know that there's nothing left to do. you've done your best and for some reason or another, things didn't work out your way. it's simply time to move on.
of course, the bridge is always open. you can run back at anytime. but is there any point? you've been there, done that and it didn't work out. why are you going back?
i think once you've moved forward over the bridge, you need to stop thinking about what you've left behind. focus forward and not behind. things will never bother if you don't think about them. what has happened has happened. regret is nothing.
everything that happens in our lives helps to shape us into the people we are, regardless of whether it made you happy or sad at the time. it's a compound effect. you are what you've experienced. accept it as another moment in your life of infinite moments.
cross that bridge and remember not to run back. everything that has happened has been filmed as a memory. that's enough.
on a completely different note, study is killing me. i've only just come to realise that a week is not enough time to somehow cram the last month of semester and revise everything from the beginning. but wish me luck! :)
xx.
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