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why facebook stalking is bad for you
my blogspot is currently down!! whyyy... of all nights in the time continuum, why tonight? i need to spill and now i don't have anywhere to do it. :(
i really should learn my lesson. but i sadly don't. i know i'm making this sound like it's about something really massive, but i'm probably just exaggerating. haaa.
facebook stalking is much too easy to do. too convenient. too simple. too accessible.
so when i find myself, how can i say... 'attracted' to someone, it's only natural that i stalk them. facebook style.
and of course, this has many pros. you find out things about them that make you like them even more. you stalk out their hobbies and interests. you check their photos and it gives you some indication of what sort of person they are. it often makes you like the person even more than before, despite them having not said an extra word to you.
then there are times when you realise that facebook stalking is the worst thing you can really do to yourself. really. you build up this image of the person, first of all, in your head that they may or may not actually be. who knows? secondly, you start becoming obsessed with who they talk to. any vague hints of their interest in a person other than yourself sends you spiralling down into the depths of self-produced depression. your world starts to crumble. suddenly you find yourself in bed, in the foetal position on the verge of tears, wondering where it all went horribly wrong. all in the space of a few hours... and the other person has no idea what a crime they have just committed. a crime that you declare you will never forgive them for and that from this moment on, you will stop thinking about them. all this pain and misery... and really, the other person doesn't even know what they've done. if they've actually done anything at all.
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