total turn off.

i'll never quite understand why some people find it so hilarious to talk about 'fucking', 'penises', 'vaginas' and other sex related topics. i personally find it quite repulsive. i just simply don't understand.

i can tolerate and occasionally even laugh at small amounts. but do people think it's 'cool' to talk so crudely about it? i don't have anything against being open about sexuality but in a world where conversation topics are a plenty, why does this one keep coming up? it's not even really a topic. it comes across to me personally as quite vulgar.

maybe i just live in a naive world. actually, no. i live in a mature world. i guess i'm ahead of my time?

i just like my guys nice and sweet. i don't want them to talk about that junk. just like how i don't like guys that swear a lot. there are very many words in the english language that can be employed in place of words such as 'fuck.' that's kind of the only word i don't like to say. i also dislike saying 'shit'. 'crap' is okay with me for some reason. haha! they can swear but it's unnecessary to do so in every sentence. or saying it for the sake of saying it. there's nothing 'cool' about doing that.

why do so few people see this?

two good examples of people who go about this in a way i find appropriate and balance it so well that it becomes funny are nick and justin.

nick talks 'dirty' all the time. but he manages to do it in a way that is absolutely hilarious and doesn't overstep any boundaries. it's often the way he says things rather than what he says that makes him as funny as he is.
justin doesn't exactly go about it the same way. he'll just randomly refer to bodily parts and make it work with the conversation. he just throws it in there in a very casual and cool way that doesn't give offence. i think it's quite a skill.

sigh. two boys that i just love because they're quite perfect just the way they are. (L)

if only they knew how much they each mean to me. i wouldn't hesitate to go to the ends of the world for either of them.